7 children and tales of motherhood, adoption, being a wife and loving Jesus completely

My friend Daniel Ruhweza posted the above picture on his Instagram page and i could not agree with him more. Why are parents scared to discipline their children or voice their opinion towards a strange child who is misbehaving? Have we lost our moral code and don't feel right enough to discipline our children, are we too tired from adding value to the rest of the world and failing add value to our own households, are tired of being parents? What the heck is going on? Sometime back, i sat next this beautiful sweet mum while we were both attending our children's concert. Sat right above us on the upper level in the main hall was a bunch of notorious kids. They kept throwing papers and some random stuff at parents on the lower level. We were dressed nice and we not looking to be re- decorated with some random pieces of things thrown at us by these rowdy kids. I was furious at how these kids were down right disrespecting parents. This sweet mummy looks at me with all...

. 2001 I got married to George a man I was one hundred percent sure God asked me to marry. For us, it was not that first love sort of scenario.  He was working for a Church we both attended and served. I sang in the choir of the same church. We met and became friends ….he had other friends who were girls…I had other friends who were boys.  I was 20 years old; He was 23 years old we just started hanging. I had many potential suitors like all girls do at that age and I really didn’t want to go through loving a random guy who I would end up breaking up with. I prayed fervently for God to show me my future husband because I wanted to get married and get on with my life. I really wanted to get married early, have my kids and then pursue my career.   My plan was to have 3 kids maximum. 2 biological and adopt one. George was always in my circle of friends. He came to Africa Hall of residence at university as all the other potential suitors did. He never as...